Thread: T not helping.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 01:06 PM
BudFox BudFox is offline
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Originally Posted by Walking Man View Post
The thing is, how am I supposed to tell her, "I need sympathy not solutions, and you don't seem genuine.", especially when she has been so generous with her time. She means well, but we're not connecting. I'm very lonely and alone right now, pretty depressed, and feeling rejected. The last thing I want is have a conflict or personal discomfort with my T!
Could you tell her this in an email? Less threatening, and gives T time to mull it over and maybe not be too reactive.

I guess you risk permanently altering the relationship in a bad way, or killing it off, but seems the true test of any relationship is whether it can withstand conflict. Anyway, I hate giving or receiving advice, so just some thoughts...
Thanks for this!
Walking Man