It is heart-wrenching for me when someone is going through this . Even if it's only on t.v. I feel helpless to help. Very difficult to see and know of the pain that leads to it and not be able to help... to not be able to help or stop it. And it's not a selfish thing to me. When I go through it myself... it doesn't bother me... it's just normal... what I have a very difficult time with is the emotional pain that leads to it.