I don't think it's weird. It sometimes complicates things but it happens.

But I am talking about long term relationship of 9 years, we lived together and I was there for his kids graduations weddings child births etc they were my step children. They didn't want to be just cut off. In your situation I don't know, you weren't really in a relationship.

As about trying to be who she wants you to be is a bad idea. You need to be yourself. Sure helping each other around the house is great if you are a couple. Other wise it is one sided and she is using you

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