Rest assured you are not alone. I have jealousy issues too. My brother and his girlfriend spend a lot of time at our house, which not only fuels the green eyed monster in me, but it gets me wondering why our house and not hers and then I step back and think, there could be a really good reason. I am not going to try and find out the reason, because I want to respect their privacy, but I some how find comfort in knowing that there is one.

Anyways, journaling helps me a lot. I don't even bother with the lists of pros and cons. I just write from the heart.