There is no need to feel guilty, Carrie. Yes, the work of figuring yourself out and getting healthy is TOUGH-- but it is worth it. You are not asking your husband to do anything that you haven't been willing to do yourself. Besides, he would also be better off if those changes were made. You aren't the only one who would benefit from this. The two of you would have a much better relationship as a result. Without those changes, you may not be able to save this relationship.

Sounds like you had a good night with him. I'm glad to hear it. You needed and deserved that, with the way that things have been going lately.

((((hugs)))) if you want them

Angela