I'm not talking commitment. The OP stated there are expectations that there's more, after 'three dates'. So, alas, after three dates, they know they are going to date more. Semantics.

Jotorne might not be 'harsh' for speculation that it could be a potential that this man could be the type to not initiate things, going forward. It's a valid concern.

I'm not talking that it's necessary to jump into bed, nor make a forever commitment. After three dates, there's a darn feeling as to whether the person is worthy of more or if there are flags.

Where's the, you look nice. I keep thinking of you statements? Will this lack of stated interest become the norm? That's something to watch out for.