<font color="purple"> You are correct. You have to be able to make up your own mind on what triggers you, and what does not tirgger you. I do agree with you on some of what has been said in this theard, but I am on of the quiet ones on the fourm now.. I used to be a very outspoken person on here, Trust me, I used to post till i was a blue dragon, but not anymore for some of the same reasons you are not wanting to "stay" or "post" But let me say one thing, Feel safe here, in knowing that you can talk to ohters about your problem's and it will stay on here. No one will try to hurt you in any way.
I am an old member persay, and I have been on here and used to be really good at helping others, and I hope my ramblings can help you to understand post, stay and just understand some topics are better left to talk around the bush persay, instead of just coming out and saying excatly what has happend tend to say, " i have been hurt by "relgion" I have been abused by it, say something along these lines== relgion has hurt me in the past How can I talk about it? How can I dicsuss it with all of you and not offend any of you???
That is my best advice that way Doc John would understand what you are asking, and if all elese fails ask him, frist, he is the main person who runs this site.. He is the one who makes it what it is..
We would not all be here if it was not for Doc. </font>