I definitely forgive a theoretical person who is sorry for something said. I believe people can be sincerely sorry and change and that bad hair things can happen on bad hair days. I'd use one of those heart-y flashing emoticons, but don't think the theoretical parties involved are the type. With appreciation and belated condolences for a recent loss.

Someone else who didn't like what I wrote play-therapist ad hominemed fiercely, but with a different diagnosis this time. So much for a second opinion.

I've had some almost comical things happen on my blog, particularly when a class from New Zealand descended upon me. Elsewhere a former APA prez used ad hominem commentary in attempt to nullify mine. I'm out there with an unpopular opinion and I'm far--franker--with my reaction to ad hominem rejoinders.