What are your sexual needs? Do you get sexually aroused on your own? Are you capable of pleasing yourself? The whole point of sex is to please yourself and your partner. It's two people enjoying each other, not just a one way deal. Most people (male or female), enjoy giving to their partner, sometimes more than receiving. Feeling like some kind sex receptacle sounds like a self-esteem issue, which needs a lot of work. I also sense a fear of intimacy and letting your guard down. Were you badly hurt by someone emotionally or physically?

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