It's like...hardly any of us likes our partner so much that the one that married quit showing up. They can't please everyone all the time...especially for us multiples...this is what makes the inner struggle more than overwhelming for us....nobody gets what we all go through.

Betrayal is betrayal...this hurts everything. Shut the door...we are done.

We've been labeled sensitive. Some of us have a tough hide and can handle wars, and yet others are easily offended...wow...revelation time.

Once the trust is gone....it takes a lot of work to regain. If your T is willing to fix this...since she's learned y'all too, it might be better to stay if she says sorry?

I hope that things are misunderstood and that things get worked out. I'm sure that she has to keep your best interest in mind...or she needs to go flip burgers. Get well!