I've almost sacked my T loads of times. I've only actually left once, and I returned within a month. Everytime something happens that upsets me, I just think - what were his intentions? If the reason he lied (or whatever) was malicious, then I would be out the door in a second. But its always he was trying to do the right thing - and messed up. And that I can deal with.

Does 4 have to keep attending just2b? Do you think you could persuade 4 not to attend any sessions until she feels ready, but to let the others continue going in the meantime?