Pat, My sub relationship is actually moving into the direction of a bigger relationship. She is bi sexual as well and likes the fact that I am. She is open to the idea. My other friend knows that I am bi as well, she is tolerant of it, but has made it clear she doesn't went to share. I haven't explored my bi interest because I live in a community that being "queer" is not acceptable. I want to explore it and I love that my sub is willing to explore it with me when we get to that stage in our relationship. Right now I guess I am just filling some of my needs, with having sex with the one woman. I much rather be just with my sub. But until we move to that level of a full relationship, I am in a quandary. I would much rather be with my sub and both of us explore each other and our bisexual nature together. Then be with someone who though accepts me as bi, wouldn't if I were to ever explore it.