I think I'm somewhere in the middle. Although I always sit in the same spot, it sometimes feels too close or too far away. There's a third place to sit--a chair--that neither of us sits in. One day, my therapist got up in the middle of session and moved that chair farther away from me. I must have kept looking at it because it was closer than usual, or seemed so. I don't know why she did that, and I wish I'd had the presence of mind to ask. I'm sure if I asked now, she won't remember it, but it makes me think she's very aware of space and how I react to it.