I don't see a point in arguing, even if I think people are wrong. We are all adults here, and everyone has their own unique view of the world. Just because one sees the world differently than I doesn't give me any right to berate them for it. Disagreement and discussion helps everyone grow and learn.

The drinking concerns me a little, too, but it helps a ton. During depressive episodes, going to the bar and having a drink helps me relax, and the atmosphere always gets to me and puts me in a better mood. Haven't found anything else that works so well and is so consistent. Doesn't hurt that I get to meet new people, which is my favorite sport.