You don't sound like anything is wrong with you. You sound like maybe you feel a little confined and bored with your life. You sound adventurous.

As far as this guy wanting you to stay at home, that doesn't sound good to me. This guy was born in the 1960s. If he's remembering the "good old days" when women didn't work outside the home, he's thinking about his mother's or grandmother's generation, not his own.

Also, unless you were in Florida, winter is coming. The climate will be different, and it wouldn't be just like going back to your vacation time.

Having said that, if you did decide to go live with this guy, what would be the possible negative consequences? If it's something you really think you want to do, and if you can change your mind and go home at any time, then maybe it's something you want to do.

The fact that you are asking people on an internet forum, though, makes me think that maybe you are feeling very divided and that the adventurous part of you wants to do this, but that you have a more cautious side that's telling you it's not a good idea.

I would take an inventory of your life and think about what your goals are to see if an adventure like this fits.

Thanks for an interesting post!