Definitely, keep yourself company....I try to view it as that now, because let me figure us out as far as roles came to screeching halt because their seem to be some back lash inside. I stopped that and just started to hang in other ways, just like friends instead of putting a sense of urgency on who's job it is in my system. I figures that will come with time. One thing, that is really hurtful for those in my system that we're apart of my life that really hurt me, I don't really like speaking to them because it was hard to get my head around the memory of that person. I feel a whole lot better about this now ,so I kind of make myself talk to those ones that make it difficult and now I can tolerate them. I don't let the hurtful memories define with inner them is in my system, although sometimes you have to make sure you reframe those ways, so that they are not used on someone with you realizing it.