So he wants you to stay at home, but he is planning to retire soon? Who will be working and making money? And you want kids? With a man who is already in his 50s? He would not be young and healthy enough to raise them through adulthood. Moving to a new country with a man near retirement age who you have only known for a few months seems like a rather unwise decision. I cannot imagine how this would play out well. It may be fun to have a summer fling with him, but to build a life and raise children? Would you also want a daughter of yours raised to believe a woman's place is in the home?