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Old Sep 11, 2015, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Mygrandjourney View Post
(I'm a guy)
So, have you had the opportunity to ask him any questions? (ex, past relationships, why he is living with his parents, etc)
How does he respond when you set a limit or hold a boundary with him? If he uses any coercive tactics (anger, veiled threats, etc), it may turn abusive. Please proceed with caution.
Hi mygrandjourney, thanks for answering! I haven't asked much about it. I did hear him say that he moved back from a different state after breaking up with a girl. This was in may, and since it seemed not long ago, I thought he might not want to talk about it if it were a painful breakup or sore subject or something. I should probably ask. I can't judge him about living with parents, I do too... But it is concerning to me that he won't go for a hike alone cause his mom would worry about him. He was ok with not getting together the other night cause I had homework. Said he would miss me but that it just made him all the more excited to see me next time. However, the texting thing, he just does not seem to understand. I hate being tied down to a phone. This is why I only have the bare minimum for emergencies.... I guess I could just not answer his texts, but that would be rude.

Also forgot to mention that he called in sick today so he could spend time with me. That freaked me out and I really should not have agreed to spend time with him today. I should have said that I had homework and we could just spent the time together going for a hike and breakfast or whatnot on Saturday. So that is a concern.
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