I met a guy a few weeks ago, seemed sweet and lovely, we chatted a lot got on well.We met in hospital of all places though. Once we both got out we went out a few times and decided to try it as a couple. He was buying all the drinks and food etc despite me keep on offering to pay my share. Was sweet but like you I prefer to pay my own way. But within a week he was moaning that we weren't spending the night together...I'm not judging anyone who sleeps with people quite quickly but it's just not something I do or feel comfortable with. So that was a red flag for me really..

He apologised the next day and it was kind of ok but then a couple of days later he said he wanted out basically.

I feel like I've gone off point slightly...

I just think that it's important to get to know someone more before you get so involved. Like just going out for a couple of drinks and chatting, go for a meal, watch a movie etc And then if after a while you feel comfortable with him then you can start thinking about where you want the relationship to go...

That's just how I would do it anyway.

It just seems like you hardly know anything about him.