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Old Sep 11, 2015, 09:04 PM
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I prefer to be alone most of the time too. I realized my problem is rude, inconsiderate people. I get along fine with people who have manners. Because I myself am polite and I have manners. I treat others with respect and as long as they treat me with the same respect, everything is great.

However, I often come into contact with people who are socially inept, who have no manners. That's when it becomes difficult for me, because people like that, do not respond appropriately to people who are polite. They will bully, manipulate, and try to take advantage of me.

My usual response is to isolate and think that all people are bad, and that I just need to avoid them to have peace. But not all people are bad. Some are, and I am working on boundaries and assertiveness so I can deal with those people more effectively. I am also trying to find the right balance of alone time and socialization.
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