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Originally Posted by divine1966
If the guy is truly interested in you he would want to get to know, have conversations, go out, do activities etc instead he sleeps with you the very next day. There is really no need to go to each other houses the very next day or even next week. You literally know nothing about each other! What does he do for a living?
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Well, I don't know how guys work. I think a guy can probably want to sleep with a girl no matter what - however much or how little they know about her does not matter so much. He works in a warehouse. And we did go to the same school in high school (we didn't know each other then though) so I guess that means I know some things about him right? He seems like a nice guy, I'm just getting really freaked out. He texts saying he is thinking of me all the time and how he can't stop thinking of me. And I know I'm probably just being petty about things but it freaks me out too that he has the same name as my dad. I know I can't base the decision just off that, but it is just creepy to me to be dating a guy with the same name as my dad. I don't want to date anyone even remotely like my dad. Do you guys think I am just being to petty about things? He is real nice and I like to spend time with him. Guess I need to get better about my boundaries. What should I do about him having the same name as my dad though? His name is never going to change. How can I think about it differently? Ideas?
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