Well, I mean, that is what I thought. I figured he was just looking to ask me what I wanted to be nice and not try and pressure me. But I find it kind of a turn off in a guy to put a girl in that situation in the first place. And if the tables were turned, I would think it a good thing for a guy to say he did not feel comfortable going any further. Cause you are right, if a person wants the relationship and not just sex, they are willing to wait a little while at least a few dates. It's been quite a long time since I was with a guy who wanted anything other than just sex so it might be hard for me to tell the difference.

To be fair, I am immature too. He is younger than me by a year though so I don't see how it is going to work out if he is immature as well since he is already younger than me. But like I said, I'm immature too. I should have insisted he wear a condom. I had them after all, guys just don't seem like they want to. It was a dumb decision made in a matter of about a minute. I think a responsible guy would probably insist on wearing one and probably even be carrying them around with them if they were thinking about sleeping with someone. I'm going to go get tested next week at the college. STI's are detectable any time after sex right?