No stds are not always detectable that soon. HIV might take several months to detect. And as you know at this time there is no reliable cure for HIV

Pulling out isn't a good birth control method at all.
But now it's a question of safety. You should put your life in danger because he might not like condoms?. Well sure men don't like it ( neither do women) but they also don't like having std.

You had another option. If you two don't want condoms. Do testing for HIV and other things, both of you. That would require a bit of waiting.

Well I know sometimes it's hard to tell the difference if men just want sex, but not going to bed with a woman the next day is usually a good sign

Now there is no judgement. I did stupid stuff in young years too but you do need to start thinking of safety and about your future

Also don't worry about his name. Of all potentially serious issues this one is not important. Give him a nickname

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