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Old Sep 12, 2015, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted by ruh roh View Post
I would not like being asked this. If my therapist doesn't know how she's doing, I'd want to find one who does. I think there has only been one time in the past year where I had to point out where she was off base or not (in my opinion) tuned in.

I had to fill out a form for every pdoc appt, though, and lied each time because I didn't want retaliation.
I'm not saying it should be required, and yes, some clients might not want such a question, and some therapists might be sufficiently attuned to their clients to have no need of asking it. I was a little thrown by it myself.

However, I think asking indicates that they're actually thinking about how to do their job as well as possible for each client (I'm guessing mine ask every client they see); they may well have a sense of how they're doing, but double-checking with the person most affected by their job performance seems reasonable to me.
Thanks for this!
Leah123