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I'm not sure it's a bad thing to care too much... many of us spend a huge part of our life working. The bad comes in when you are struggling for some reason at work and that can take a terrible toll on you. Time to find a new place to spend a huge part of your life.
You can not change anyone you encounter. You can either manage how things affect you or you can look for a different job. I stayed way too long at some positions. I give to much of the best of me to not have some mutual respect and sense of accomplishment.
I have those friends that family life is their everything. They may not be as concerned with a job that they the can just tolerate - their most important values are outside the workplace.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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