<font color="#000088">I know how bad it hurts. When I moved to California, awhile ago, some of my friends that I was really close to did the same to me. They just all the sudden stopped inviting me to their parties for some reason. They were acting kindof weird around me, like really distant. When we had been really close before they found out I was going to be moving. Then they just changed on me, like a switch went off in their brain. They just didn't want to get any closer,because they knew I was leaving. And it hurt more than anything, but atleast I understood later why they did it. It didn't make it hurt any less, but I just understood it better. So I knew that I hadn't done anything to cause their behavior, except for plan on moving! But I've been on the other end also, and had a loved one move away from where I am, and that hurt as well. But I knew not to push them away. It hurts either way!

((((((((((Canders))))))))))

J

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