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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
For me itīs a shame even if not all people think of it as a shame. I wish I didnīt feel ashamed but I do. You only have to look upon statistics to see that I belong to a minority when it comes to not having sex and not experienced a relationship and being over 30.
I was in therapy but got terminated and now I have to look for another T. Because I canīt pay for therapy myself Iīll have to turn to the public health care and I donīt think theyīll let me talk about issues around sexuality. They more of treat depression and major psychiatric diagnoses.
Iīm happy about the thing you mentioned, that I havenīt given myself to just anybody but I really wish I would have been able to find some kind of love earlier.
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Have you looked into the possibility that you suffer from sort of erotophobia? This is a real and debilitating illness, which has to be treated. Here is just one of many links pertaining to it:
https://sexual-communication.wikispaces.com/Erotophobia
Btw, I'm not a Dr., so I don't if this is exactly what you are suffering from.
If you don't feel comfortable looking into or mentioning this, I would also recommend what Bill suggested. Find a good therapist and talk about your self-esteem issues, as well as your mother's unhealthy attitude toward sex.
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