Nothing wrong in seeking gainful employment. No one works for free. It's good to seek that and nothing is wrong with being wealthy. But you will not be anyone's priority because you have money, you will not be more attractive to anyone. It will give you more choices where to live where to travel and what to buy. And it's important. Sure. It will not give you better choice of partners or friends.

Also many many people have a lot of money or make decent living, or run successful business. We are in the U.S after all. , sorry it isn't exceptional or special to make a good living or be rich. It doesn't make one valuable. Other things could make you special

If your current goal is to stand on your own feet it's totally acceptable. Having a car and a phone is very much something you need. I hope you can make good living soon. It's smart to seek wealth but not for reasons you described. it will not magically bring happiness


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