[QUOTE=Soccer mom;4672489]. . . I call it clarification and ask that she doesn't engage so to start an argument. . .QUOTE]

I really like the idea that you ask her not to engage when you bring up the issues you feel she misinterpreted. This final session is for you and for your peace of mind. You get to decide what you need for some kind of closure. I really hope she honors that request and just simply listens. I think it would be very telling if she wasn't able to do what you're asking and has to slip in some way her interpretation of what happened. Some people just aren't good at not getting how they see things into the conversation. But hopefully, this is the one time that she's able to restrain that urge! I hope it goes as well as it closure sessions go!