Thanks, both of you!

That makes me feel a little better. I have no problem with being bi, gay, or straight. And I know there are other "labels" too. One of my best friends is attracted to anyone, better known as pansexual, except she says she doesn't like labels.

It's not really just in my dreams. I have kissed a lot of women when I've been drunk. I have had a threesome with a man and another woman, twice. During those two times, I didn't go anywhere near her crotch area because it grosses me out. But I really enjoyed her breasts and her lips. I am also still in love with my former therapist, who is a woman...but I always thought the only reason I was in love with her was because she crossed a lot of boundaries with me and a lot of transference occured, so I didn't think much of it. But lately I have been fantasizing about having sex with her or any other imaginary woman.

It's interesting that you said you change spots on the continuum throughout your lifetime. I was definitely fully straight up until a few years ago. Either that, or I just suppressed it because I didn't want to be any sort of gay (what with the stigma and all).