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Old Sep 14, 2015, 10:36 AM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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It takes time. I suggest that that the goal of "love her like she is yours" be broken down into smaller steps like Go to lunch together", "Watch a movie together", etc. Gentle time together without pressure to love in a certain way can let you know each other at your own pace and create a space in which love can perhaps grow over time.