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Old Sep 14, 2015, 04:01 PM
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Oh my!

I'd agree with the above. Unless you have specifically identified that you want to address your sexuality/sex life in therapy I think it's way, way, way off base. Even when I've brought up sexual issues in therapy my therapist has followed my lead in terms of the amount of detail and specificity we get into. I would find it inappropriate for her to ask questions (sexual or otherwise) purely to satisfy her own curiosity.
I guess a little background info is warranted here. I see her to deal with childhood sexual abuse. I have a very hard time opening up with my feelings so they come out in other ways. In the past, I have acted out sexually by purposely recreating the atmosphere of my abuse. I have just recently started to realize that I do this so I think this is where she is coming from. I truly do not think that she is just curious. I really believe that she is trying to understand me so she can help me. BUT! That doesn't make it any less awkward.
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