i had to give up a friend of 30 years due her refusing to take her meds. i couldnt' take the abuse anymore. i was there for her whenever she needed me....i was there for the good times. we had such a great life together and then i had to just say that i had to detach and walk away from her.

we went through our divorces together, children smoking pot, etc. etc. etc......i miss her but i sure don't miss the abuse. i really grieved when i said goodbye......xoxoxo pat