(((((((((((((damajdancer)))))))))))))))))))))

hold on sweet girl! you are strong - you can handle this.

first - the rape was not your fault. what the others were trying to say is you need to start taking responsibility for your actions. drinking is not acceptable.

however - and there's a big however - he is an adult and you are a child. you think like a child. you reason like a child. you are a child. as an adult, he thinks and reasons like an adult. you don't understand this now - but you will.

what he did was serve you alcohol. it's true you could have said no. but trust me! if he said he was only 18 - i'm guessing he manipulated you more than you realize in to drinking and how much. he knew what he was doing. he knew his malicious intention was to get you drunk and rape you.

shame on your mom and shame on your dad for treating you the way they are. drama - of course there's drama - you are a teenager!! obviously from a less than stable home life.

when you're dad put you in the hospital - where was social services?

sweetheart - you have it rough. but you are little fighter!! and things may get a bit bumpy over the next few days and weeks - but the road will eventually smooth out for you. just hold on.