Hi all-

Recently, my husband and I have started discussing the idea of starting a family. Not right now and not even in the near future... We're 27 and have been married for almost three years. As much as I would love to have a child, there is such a large fear in me that takes over when I think about it. I think about money, and is it worth it if we can't afford for one of us to stay at home, will I be a "crazy" mom (meaning I worry about how my anxiety impact the child), and last but not least... when we discuss the issue, it seems that we both feel that one child would be enough for us for numerous reasons. Many people I love and respect their opinions have mentioned to me that this is a BAD idea and selfish. Although I know it is ultimately our decision, that sticks with me and makes me feel bad. I start to think, then should we just not have any? More than one or none?

Then I sit back and wonder... how could someone who thinks and worries so much about something that hasn't even happened yet possibly be a good mother???!!!

Any takers? Anyone successfully raise "ONLY" one child?