I'm really happy you had the chance for a phone session and could at least make some clearness gor now. I think your T was just upset about her own situation and she herself took a while to acknowledge and process the whole thing. And now the emergency is contained a bit, she is able to be there again and touch base. From what you wrote she sincerely values your relationship a lot too and is willing to be part of your life, despite some dfficult moments that might happen again.