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Originally Posted by Soccer mom
My biggest hope is that the transference isn't as intense next time. or, that they can help me through it if it is. I was stuck due to ex-T's reactions to me, boundaries, and personality similar to my mom. My ET is stronger right now but I think it's because I'm losing her and my mind/body wants to be close? I'm hoping they will fade with time.
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It was very similar for me, T1 refused to discuss transference, and his boundaries were all over the place. ET was strong for me in the end too. I didn't want to tell T2 about it but I did in the end because it was so overwhelming. I haven't had any ET with T2 and I no longer have sexual feelings about T1.
Just take each day as it comes and be assured, processing all of this with new T will help you to sort through all these complicated feelings
