There is nothing wrong receiving help from your parents from your parents. Both you and your brother require help from your parents. It's just maybe he requires more as his situation is worse. It's sad they had to lie. They enabled him to continue his life style. They are enablers but it's tough to tell the truth about ones children.

I wonder about him not taking Meds for HIV. Does he have aids already or not yet? There is no cure. You can just prolong life. Maybe he doesn't want to live? I've met people with aids. They have so many side effects from Meds that I could see how one gives up. It must be painful for them to know he has that.

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