Thanks for giving your perspectives on this, I appreciate it. Thanks for the words about how I express myself in my post.
I didnīt take any offense by what you said. I agree to what you say, I never was that kind of girl and now woman who fell in love or felt attracted to singers or "idols" in general. Iīve never felt or feel attracted just by looking at another person, I need to know more and feel that a person is appealing in other ways than just by looks.
I have wondered "why" that is many times as I often heard about other girls talking about boys they found cute, especially in our teens but I never shared that experience with them.
I think I feel a bit embarrased by just the thought of being attracted to someone, to want someone. I donīt know why that is.
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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
Everyone has made some very good points. And you are amazing at making yourself understood (I'm afraid I'm not so good at that, but here goes....)
Please do not take offense at anything I say...
When I was young and I had not had a boyfriend, I also wondered what the heck all the fuss was about. I did not get it.
The thing is, if you haven't had sex, (or found anyone that you WANT to have sex with) then you wouldn't have any kind of reference for it.
Perhaps you need real emotional attachment before you are able to feel desire. This isn't wrong. There is nothing wrong with you for feeling this way...
Just a thought...
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