Ah ah yes...good point on micro vs macro. I've noticed things T doesn't pick up on and vice versa. T is a PTSD/trauma therapist and has been working with two or three DID clients besides us. And she has mentioned on occasion she is no expert. Understanding something that there is not much research or understanding of I guess things like that happen. She asks questions and sometimes we hate we have no answers for. And maybe the same goes the other way. She is wonderful though.
I'll write what my system is like at later time ...it's 530 am and didn't sleep much. Thanks to everyone that has responded. Have a great day!!!