Oh Monty, I am so sorry things are so tough right now. I'd like to pull husband aside and have a conversation with him... As far as his mother...

I wish I had an easy solution for you Monty. Hang in there. School will be starting soon. Hold your ground if you can about things. I wish husband would take up for your side. I don't have any solutions to offer, but I am sorry this is going on. I wish you only the best. Hang in there.