Well, I guess I see it as normal to be asked by my T. I've had issues with dealing with the loss of sensation in my penis. I've been asked many times about my sexual past, my sexual orientation, preferences, activities, etc., all to figure out if my loss of feeling is linked to some aspect of my sexuality.

It's been difficult. Just having my T discuss the idea that me being bisexual and losing my feeling might be because I could actually be gay and I might not be sexually attracted to my wife...it devastated me. I've questionned by past, my sexual orientation, my marriage...but in reality I know that my T had to ask.

Nowadays, I am very open with my T. We discuss my desires (gay and straight), my sexual activities (gay and straight), my anxiety, etc. all to ensure that I am dealing with my feelings and not hiding it all away. Sometimes it's embarassing, sometimes it's rather arousing...but I know it's necessary.

Keep an open mind, and if you are concerned over why your T is asking this kind of personal information, then ask and your T will tell you.