Hear hear CTB!

How that saying again?

The best way to get over a woman is to get under a new one.


I have no experience with getting under women though, but the general consensus seems to be that this actually works as its a great distraction and stress reliever.


I too vote for your dignity, and also, please do yourself a favor by trying to have a realistic perspective of this situation.


This is not the loss of the great love of your life. Not even by a long shot, because love is actually reciprocal.


This is you refusing to be used and manipulated by a woman who played heavily on your infatuation with her. The reason you can't get over her seems more obsessive in nature than heartache TBH. Because the amount of torture you're experiencing doesn't add up when you weigh the actual "relationship" against the emotional and mental turmoil


Once you have healthier and more accurate perspectives you will start seeing the light, and your heart and head will begin to mend. But neither of those can happen if you choose to remain in the dark with regards to the reality of this whole situation.


Good luck!