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Old Sep 16, 2015, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Also how much emotionatl energy and time do people really have? I work two jobs a lot of hours and i have hobbies and I have group of girlfriends have family members and have a BF. If on top of it I have to find time to go out with male friends? heck who has the energy or time? I do keep in touch with few male friends and my BF keeps in touch with few females, but we don't have time to socialize with them. We barely have time for each other
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You raise a good point- I do actually have much more free time then my BF and all of my girl friends have very different lifestyle... I have a flexible but lonely job, my family is all I work and socialize with other then my BF who always seems to be working or playing golf.

So to have someone locally to grab a coffee on a whim or lunch etc would be nice. I always had make friends and they were specifically in that category. I like to hang with the boys as I am a bit of tomboy myself.

Gah! Hard call. It's easy to say "if the tables were turned"... But my BF is not typical jealous type and neither am I.
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