Dear T,
OK, I just sent you a long e-mail about what I posted above about your reaction to my "unconditional love" comment. I hope you're not mad. I always feel kind of guilty when I compare you to MC. Maybe you just don't want me attaching to you the way I'm attached to him. But if he didn't want that, he could just set up more boundaries or stop reassuring me. Yeah, there's probably some paternal countertransference going on with him, but I don't see why that's always a bad thing. He makes me feel cared for and safe, and that's really what I need right now.

And I hope you at least reply with something before I see you Tuesday...