Part of me wants to look for another T and part of me doesn't. There are things I really like about this T. She can be really nice. When she is supportive, it's exactly what I need. I like her boundaries with emails, phone calls, and hugs (though I still don't trust her enough to ask for a hug). I think for the most part she has good boundaries.

The main thing I would change is more consistent, no more threats or ultimatums, and for her to always be kind and supportive.

My problem is that my T reminds me of what happened with ex-T. Ex-T went from so loving, caring, and supportive to distant, cold, uncaring, and mean in a weeks time. And this T is doing the same every other week. The only difference is that she hasn't actually abandoned me...yet. My gut tells me she won't abandon me, but it told me the same about ex-T.