You raise a good point- I do actually have much more free time then my BF and all of my girl friends have very different lifestyle... I have a flexible but lonely job, my family is all I work and socialize with other then my BF who always seems to be working or playing golf.


So to have someone locally to grab a coffee on a whim or lunch etc would be nice. I always had make friends and they were specifically in that category. I like to hang with the boys as I am a bit of tomboy myself.


Gah! Hard call. It's easy to say "if the tables were turned"... But my BF is not typical jealous type and neither am I.