My T isn't an expert - Im sure he told me I was his first DID client. This doesn't bother me in the slightest. Everyone has to learn somehow, and I quite like being the first. I have a really big issue about being part of a conveyor belt of clients - of a T just seeing me as his work. Being the first, I guess, makes it more likely he will see me as special - and less like 'work'.

I don't have any doubts about his abilities --- obviously if he was also thick as **** I would be more interested in finding an 'expert', but he seems to be one step ahead of me ALL the bloody time, so I don't have any concerns!