wow that is harsh. people don't come here just asking for money. most of the fund raisers we have are for long time members that have had something happen that they need help. I would hope that if I or you needed it we could feel we could ask when there is no other place to get help.

as far as the supporters forum there are other ways to get to that status. like was mentioned writing an article for the newsletter.

I don't think Doc John is co-dependent at all but does offer a good place to get support and yes help money wise if someone really needs it.