Ask for what she/he meant. Some things don't need to be forgiven in order to move on. Some things just have to accepted as they can't change and we can move forward. I can move without dwelling on something but I don't necessarily have to forgive.

I didn't understand comment about rapist. I don't care if rapist went to therapy or not, I wouldn't want him/her around me or my kid, period. Is this a real example or just hypothetical?

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